How to Give Him The Best Hand Job

Every guy is different so there are no sure-fire ways to bring him to the heights ecstasy. If you "screw up" and twist to the left instead of the right, don't worry his penis will still like it.

Slow Your Pace
Consider beginning your sensuous hand job with a nice slow pace. Though our first instinct may be to grab a tight hold of a penis, a huge part of sexual enjoyment is in the build-up.

By taking time to explore the entire body, we draw the blood to the surface and can promote full-body orgasms.

And though the penis does love to get some hands-on, mouth-on, tongue-on, breasts-on attention, good things come to dicks who wait.

Explore Erogenous ZonesIf you have a few extra minutes, take some time to explore his erogenous zones from head to toe. Touch, kiss, blow, caress, rub and grind your body all over his and pay attention to his response to identify his hot spots.

You can return to these spots right before or during orgasm to intensify the sensation. You might consider caressing his body from head to crotch and then from foot to crotch while gently brushing against his good stuff with your breasts, hair or fingers as you get him riled up.


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Flutter Your Fingers
Once you're ready to get down to business, you might begin by gently fluttering your fingers over his inner thighs, scrotum and penis.

Use lots and lots lube for hand jobs.

If you blindfold him and use lots of lube and varied pressure, he should not be able to discern whether you are using your hands, mouth or vagina to pleasure his member.

Goddess Hand Job
The Goddess hand-job technique is a sure-fire way to finish him off and leave him aching for more of you, you and only you.

It’s super easy and can be adapted to suit a range of positions and scenarios.

  • Rub a lavish amount of lube between your hands so that they are slippery and warm.
  • Wrap both hands around the base of his penis interlacing your fingers and squeezing tightly.
  • Slip and slide from the base to tip using firm pressure and a steady rhythm.
  • As you approach the head, twist your hands around his swollen ridge in a smooth fashion.
  • If he likes a little extra pressure, add a little squeeze at the very base of his cock with each stroke.

Here are some starter techniques: watch the video at the start to see how you can do these hand job sex techniques.

The Firestarter
Lube up both palms and gently rub them over the shaft of the penis as though you are warming your hands over the fire. Lube is essential to this technique, so be generous in your application. Breathe gently on his lubricated shaft to produce a tingling sensation.

The Basic Grip
Use your non-dominant hand to grip the base of the penis by forming a tight okay sign using your index finger and thumb. This can function like a cock ring to trap blood in the penis and intensify sensation. Use the other lubricated hand to stroke up and down the shaft and apply pressure to the ridge and the frenulum.

The Other Woman
This is the backhand grip. Turn your dominant hand upside down as though you are signalling a thumbs-down sign. Stroke up and down the shaft to offer a varied sensation from the traditional grip.

The Multi-Tasker
Use one hand to perform the Basic Grip and the other hand to firmly rub up and down the bottom half of his shaft using lots of lube. If he doesn't like being gripped at the base, use your other hand to massage his testicles and perineum. Wrap your well-lubricated lips tightly around his coronal ridge and twist in a circular motion with your mouth as you apply pressure to the ridge.

Have fun, experiment and adjust these hand jobs to suit your needs and work your lover into a frenzy of orgasmic release.

Watch as these women show a variety of ways to give him the best hand job.

About The Author

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Dr. Jessica O'Reilly

Dr. Jessica O’Reilly is a sought-after sexologist with a PhD in human sexuality. She maintains a private practice in Toronto and travels the world to speak at events that promote healthy and deliciously pleasurable sex. From regular appearances on Cosmopolitan Television and Playboy TV to hosting retreats in the sunny Caribbean, she relishes in every moment! Check out her website SexWithDrJess.com, follow her on Twitter and Facebook.

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