Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 2

Watch this video by RomantiQT.com about why it's important to spice up your sex life by finding your partner's erogenous zones.

Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 1
Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 3
Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 4

Kisses that sizzle
There's kissing and then there's sizzling kissing. One simple type of kiss that will make things sizzle is called “The Medieval Necklet” kiss.

This kiss is not meant for kissing the lips but for stimulating the neglected and tender skin around the collarbone and neckline.

The name derives from the Medieval times when fair maidens wore low cut necklines that revealed their cleavage and their Knights in shining armor could seduce them by kissing along this area. (BTW—women can also do this kiss on men.)

Legend has it that when a knight wanted to seduce a maiden the trick was to plant little erotic kissing, one after the other, along her collarbone above her heaving bosom. This style of kissing would heighten her feelings of pleasure.

Begin by nuzzling your partner's neckline and then slowly begin to plan little kisses from one side of their neck to the other. Pause between each kiss so they can feel your breath along their collarbone.

It feels extremely erotic because you are taking your time and both of you can savor the moment.

Discover their pleasure map
Every person has their favorite erogenous zones—as well as ones they have yet to discover. Build sexual anticipation by telling them you don't want to have full sex immediately but that you're on a journey of discovery.

Make sure your partner's warm and comfortable and ask them to lie back. Ask them to close their eyes and then ask them to rate from 1-to-10 the different areas you touch—one can be the least pleasurable and 10 being the most pleasurable sensation.

Begin at their scalp and try different stroking and touching techniques. Then continue down their shoulders and along the side of their arms.

Touch around their fingertips and palms and then up inside their wrist, to their inner elbow and up to their armpit. Now move along their ribcage up across their chest/ breast and down their abdomen.

Change the style of touch you use and the pressure and speed of touch while you're moving around their body. You might decide to simply do one area of their body at a time. Another time you might explore their back and buttocks. Then trade places and enjoy having your erogenous map discovered.

Your personal pleasure chest
Every gal should have a pleasure chest. Make sure to keep it by your bedside so it's handy for spontaneous sex.

What should you include? Keep your favorite lubricants, and massage oil. Also, you might want to include things like a

  • blindfold
  • handcuffs
  • a cock ring
  • silky stockings
  • your favorite erotica or sexy magazine
  • edible body paint
  • other little items like a body brush

Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 1
Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 3
Sensually Erotic Sex Tips: Part 4

 

About The Author

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Dr. Pam Spurr

Dr. Pam Spurr is an award-winning radio presenter, agony aunt, sex writer, and behavior and relationship expert. She is the author of 13 self-help books—including Sex Academy—some of which have been published in numerous countries and have become best sellers. Since 1997 she has appeared regularly on both radio and TV in the UK. Through numerous magazine and internet columns, and newspaper articles she's advised millions of people on their relationships and sex lives. Visit her at DrPam.co.uk and follow Dr. Pam on Twitter.

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